Story: Your instincts
I am a lady in my mid 20s. There is this guy I love though. We met during service (NYSC). We started dating, then I found out he has another girlfriend who happens to be someone I knew. I didn’t let that get to me cus I loved him. We were cool, we stay in the same lodge. One day, the other girl came around for weekend and I was around.
I acted normal as if everything was fine but deep down within me I was terribly hurt. The guy traveled for close to 3months, while he was away I had fling with another guy cus we were not in good terms then. So wen he came back, my conscience was pricking me and I told him all that happened wen he wasn’t around.
He flared up and I started begging him. He accepted my apology and we continued dating. He is a very nice guy and he loves me but i’m afraid. He has an ex. who still likes him and still wants to get back with him. Truth be told, he doesn’t give that one face and the other girl too keeps calling. He even goes out to call the girl whenever am around. I need ur candid advice.
I have this odd feeling that probably because we stay in the same House, that he is just using me to while away time. I love him so much. I don’t want to be an option to someone I take as a priority.